Get Hurt and Hurting

When someone that you love do you harm. You might forgive them. But you also might not. You are in a rage. You can't take anymore. You are in anger and looking for a shelter. Then you found he/she there. Someone that would like to stand by your side. Maybe they're truly and maybe they're just wanna be loved by you. Just the same like you. They hope to get some love.

But you.. You don't wanna stop getting hurt. You always place yourself as a victim. You don't go anywhere and using any reason as excuses for the abusive behavior, including using love, children, big family, honor, and promises. Then.. sooner or later, you'll treat someone who cares about you much, the same like your lover whom also the abuser treats you. How bad is it?

Would you protect yourself from being harmed? So, you don't make anyone else get hurt by you. Stop being abused and stop abusing. Would you? We all need peace and love on earth.

*It's been a while since the first time i want to post about this abusive thing. Some friend of mine get hurt in their relationship, with their romantic partner, and even with someone whom they called friend. Can we stop being in a position who get hurt almost all the time and start hurting others?*